Saturday, October 1, 2011
Fighting or Being The Bigger Person
Alright well this isnt really recent news but there was a time sometime this year that i honestly thought i was going to get into a fight with some. eh and now that i look back on it, it seems really dumb of how i was acting -.- and the gay reason was that this dude was going around talking to my friends saying that i was this "horrible person that was just going to hurt them in the end" and gah i got mad >.< i thought that i was actually going to find this person and just punch him till his face was broken.. and well then a few days past and they still wanted to fight but gah i didnt have the urge to fight. INSTEAD i decided to send a message saying that kind of a duetch he was. and he messaged back saying that he was ready to fight but then i had changed to not wanting to.. funny how things change after awhile huh? i find it odd how sometimes you think you really want something but it turns out to be something that you wantedED. Turns out that instead of being the "mad" person i decided to be the matur one and was all like "eh you can act like a little thirteen year old child and il just let it slide because no matter what im still going to be on top of their world and you will always fall short :]" I found it was a much better spot being the biggger person then being the mad testosterome filled teenager boy. so here is a hint to all of you wanting to fight for no real reason. [unless they are talking about your family or just honestly doing some REDICULOUS things] be the bigger person or wait a few days to see if your feelings change about the subject cause i know mine did. so i think you have an equal chance too.
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The funny thing about that is there are normally two types of people involved in a fight - 1) somebody who's scared, and 2) somebody who's glad the other person is scared. Most people don't want to fight. Like the example of the dude you gave. I seriously doubt he wanted to fight. If he truly wanted to throw down, he would have went looking for you and come out swinging....not sending messages and throwing around a bunch of big talk. The more somebody talks, the less they want to scrap.
ReplyDeleteThe main point here is that you're exactly right - most of the time, it's just not necessary. Sometimes it is and you'll know if/when that time comes. I've been in several fights - "won" some, "lost" some. Like you were getting at, the only true winner is the bigger man who tries to handle it diplomatically. And of the fights I've been in, only about two or three can I actually remember what it was over.